Tag: life

  • On becoming 44…

    On becoming 44…

    Today is my 44th birthday 🥳 It’s a bit surreal looking at this number, honestly; I don’t relate to it at all! I feel much younger (and look much younger thanks to God and good genes 😉). What a year! What a year, indeed! It has been quite intense, with intense interactions, deep lessons and…

  • Kindness vs. niceness

    Kindness vs. niceness

    Have you ever truly contemplated the difference between niceness and kindness? As kids, many of us were raised to put on our best behaviour in front of people and make sure that we are the sweethearts of everyone we meet. We were raised to people please! You’re not alone; everyone had this experience one way…

  • What if your life is a game you forgot you were playing?

    What if your life is a game you forgot you were playing?

    Nothing you see around you is real; it’s all an illusion. This was the “secret” a podcaster wanted to let us in on. The concept she presented is built on the understanding that we create our own reality; our mindset designs and manifests a world whose sole purpose is to get us to transcend higher…

  • We’re all God’s PETS

    We’re all God’s PETS

    A couple of months ago, and in a moment of uncertainty, I asked myself a series of questions about my life. And just as usual, I opened my journal and started writing. But this time it felt different. It didn’t feel like it was me who’s writing, it felt like I was just scripting words…

  • Chapter 6: A Cup of Coffee, a Wake-Up Call…

    Chapter 6: A Cup of Coffee, a Wake-Up Call…

    Chapter 1: The Weight of ArrivalChapter 2: Roots of ResilienceChapter 3: Her Success BackfiresChapter 4: A Fragile Sense of PrideChapter 5: Sacrificing Half a Smile Welcome to the final chapter of this series. If it’s your first time checking this story, I encourage you to start from the beginning. Happy reading! Chapter 6: A Cup of Coffee, a…

  • An invitation to re-evaluate

    An invitation to re-evaluate

    Having been on the receiving end of disrespectful comments from someone I valued, and having felt the anger, sadness, and anxiety that came with it, I decided I won’t let them go unprocessed. It doesn’t matter now whether the person who made me feel this way did so intentionally or unintentionally. What matters is that…

  • Cupcake surprise!

    Cupcake surprise!

    (True story) Imagine this for a moment… You’ve held this position for two years now. And for two years, no one at the office really celebrated your birthday. I mean, yes, they call and say the usual “Happy Birthday” over Zoom, with a background showing balloons and the sort, but no one brings cake, for…